unloverly
/ˌʌnˈlʌvərli/Definitions
1. adjective
unpleasantly lacking in love or affection; unpleasant to be with
“Her unloverly attitude made it difficult for her to form close relationships.”
2. adverb
in a way that is unpleasantly lacking in love or affection; in a way that is unpleasant to be with
“She spoke unloverly to her sister, causing a heated argument.”