unlovably
/ʌnˈlɒvəbli/Definitions
1. adverb
in a way that inspires no love or affection; unlovable
“The unlovably selfish behavior of her boss made her quit her job.”
2. adverb
to an extent that inspires no love or affection; to an unlovable degree
“The unlovably cold weather made it difficult to go outside.”
3. adverb
in a manner that inspires no love or affection; in an unlovable way
“Her unlovably blunt words shocked everyone in the room.”