uncousinly
/ˌʌnˈkʌsɪnli/ or /ˌʌnˈkʊsɪnli/Definitions
1. adverb
in a manner characteristic of a distant or remote relative, especially an uncle or aunt; in a somewhat distant or uninterested manner.
“She spoke to her cousin in an uncousinly way, making him feel unwelcome at the family gathering.”