disoblige
/ˌdɪsəbˈlɪdʒ/; /dɪˈsɒblɪdʒ/Definitions
1. verb
to fail to please or gratify; to cause displeasure
“Her failure to attend the event disobliged her host.”
2. noun
an obligation or duty that is difficult to fulfill
“The demands of her job were a heavy disoblige to her personal life.”
3. noun
a cause of displeasure or annoyance
“The long wait at the airport was a disoblige to many travelers.”