defacto
dɛfˈæktəʊ
Definitions
1. noun
a situation in which something is true or exists in fact, even if it’s not officially recognized or sanctioned
“The defacto leader of the community became the de jure mayor after the elections.”
2. adverb
in fact, although not officially recognized or sanctioned
“She is the defacto head of the household, taking care of everyone’s needs.”